What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 08:07
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Are there any industries or sectors where ChatGPT is particularly well-suited for implementation?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? Can good intentions always lead to positive outcomes?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Can ringing in the ears be a sign of spiritual awakening?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
What are some effective ways to cope with loss and grief?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
What are the most common signs that a partner will cheat before it happens?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
How do you weigh in on the Vance-couch conversation?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
The Ice Breaker Questions
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
If yes, what?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Any that are a turn off?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Nothing too Serious
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Any that are a turn off?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
39~ What are your love languages?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
*** Random Questions ***
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
29- How superstitious are you?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
What is your favorite position? Why?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Would you read them together?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Family Relation Age Play
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
52~ What are your hobbies?
If you win, what will you make them do?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
*** Questions About Me ***
How old are you? Male or Female?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Please share Did you stop?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?